How about taking on the issues instead of the people that present them. If we can't see common interests we are fucked. Love to stay, can't.
Finding the right mate is well and good, but don't let the search define you. And by the way, never settle. Your true mate may not come along in this life time, and that's totally ok.
...to be Scarpoe.
Trying to wrap up the humanitarian effort. Please pardon the pause.
No book is a panacea. We must piece together our findings for ourselves. Then help others find their way.